Well today i talk about the thing that plays an overwhelming part in making me the way i am. Must i be thankful? who knows...
On with my point. Family. some consider family the group of people who love you and care for you and raise you from birth. Others consider family a group of people whose blood runs in your veins. thus they become your family because you had no choice.
From the parents eyes, one may either be a blessing in disguise as a baby, or in some remorseful cases, what people call "the unfortunate accident". Well, unknown to many parents, the way they treat the child and how they look at their child affects him/her in various ways and also help sculpt the child to be the man/woman he/she will be in the future.
Some children hate their parents or siblings because "he didnt lend me his toy" or because "they didnt give me the present i wanted". Well to people who deep in their hearts are guilty, i have a word of humble advise. Look at what happened in their shoes. If ur sibling doesnt lend you something, it is probably because he/she treasures it too much and he/she does not trust you with it. solution? establish that trust so that there is no boundary in the bond you share with you brother or sister.Now about the parents. If your parents dont buy u something ,it is possible because they are at a short of money, and they cannot afford to buy you something at that point in time. Try practising patiene and ask them another time.
However some children hate their parents because they abuse them, and treat them like their birth was a form of doom to them. well, some become very secluded from society, because they do not want to be hurt in the same way by others. Some trust in friends too much because that is all they have to hold on to. In some cases these friends take advantage of the situation and make use of the person. Instead of leavin the situation as it is, one should try to correct it. Find out why the bond between the two parties is at such a state, and try to work his/her way to show the parents that he/she is not as bad as they thought. sometimes it may work.
However in some cases fate deals the child a mighty savage blow such that the abuse and treatment is beyond aid. To people who share such a life, there is only words of aid i can spare you. Be strong, do not falter because of others, be true to yourself, if life is like a slavedriver that mercilessly whips you, wait for the opportunity to snatch that whip and and your pain. Your time will come.If they do not accept you for what you are, always remember. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind
For the luckier people who enjoy a good family, at times we mistreat them although we may not notice it. Try to give more than you take. One may never be truly hurt by giving, but one may hurt boundlessly by taking. Do not take them for granted, do not misuse them, for once they are gone, then you will see he harshness you dealt upon them, and only then will the burden of guilt be laid upon you.
